Best Christian Dating Sites

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Are you single? Looking for a long-term relationship? Maybe a pen pal or friend? Or, are you all set for marriage and kids?

While some people are nervous about answering this question, the best Christian dating sites pretty much make it easier to answer. Both marriage and church attendance have been declining in the United States since 1970, according to the Institute of Family Studies.

Fertility rates have also fallen while rates of cohabitation have increased. Depending on how strictly you follow traditional rules on Christianity, marriage, parenthood and divorce, this can either be good news or bad news.

But historically, IFS confirms that Christianity has encouraged adherents to marry and shies away from divorce. The good news is for those who are ready and willing to get married, strong evidence connects regular church attendance with higher relationship quality. So if you’re willing to join one of these seven online dating sites, you’re already taking a step in the right direction.

Best Christian Dating Sites

1. Christian Cafe

The site, which was started in 1999, has more than 3K testimonials about happy couples who found their partners on this site. The online community is made up of more than 25K Christians.

When signing up for Christian Cafe, be ready to talk about your attendance activity levels: Do you attend occasionally, regularly or are you in church activities?

You can also clarify whether you fall into any of these categories: Prayer Ministry, Group Leader, Deacon(ess), Pastor, Involved in Singles/Children’s/Music ministry, Mission Trips, etc. Initially you can communicate “absolutely free for the first 10 days,” but after joining, the expiration date was actually eight days.

A pop-up also comes up regarding a five-day promo, so the promotional trial period may differ depending on whatever deal the site has at the time. The price plans are $29.95 for one month, $14.99 per month for a three-month plan ($44.95), $11.66 per month for six months ($69.95) or $7.91 per month for one year ($94.95).

2. Christian Mingle

This religious site is pretty easy to use. Search by match percentage and distance, find out who is online, and/or choose which users are more desirable in the Lookbook.

You can also find out your daily matches and share your ideal first date experience. Choose between Christian Mingle’s suggested options: coffee or tea, drinks, a meal, a walk or hike, or discuss your own ideal first date on your profile.

If you have a paid membership, you can message other paid users and check out read receipts to see who has read your messages. Pick between three plans: $24.99 per month for six months, $34.99 per month for three months or $49.99 for one month.

With paid membership, you can also hide your online status; and browse by profile and matches publicly or anonymously. You can also get access to all of a users’ photos. Read our full Christian Mingle review here.

3. Match Christian Singles

Chances are you’ve heard of Match.com by now. Since 1995, Match.com has been servicing 24 countries and territories, and hosts web sites in 15 different languages.

This includes Yahoo! Personals in Australia and North America, along with many countries throughout Asia, Europe, North America and South America. Unlike other sites that allow you to see all about the user (profiles, personality tests, dating descriptions, etc.), this site is for serious online daters.

Free members can only search (public) profiles, receive top picks, create a profile, appear in search results, post photos and send likes. Paid members are the only ones who can see, send and respond to messages; see who has viewed your profile; see who has liked your profile; remove members from view; and stand out with a “Super Like.”

Match.com paid memberships are of varying rates: standard plans are $19.99 per month for a year (total of $239.88), $21.99 per month for six months (total of $131.94) and $33.99 for three months (total of $101.97). Premium plans (one profile review per year, message read alerts, monthly boosts) cost $20.99 per month for a year (total of $251.88), $22.99 per month for six months (total of $137.94) and $38.99 for three months (total of $116.97).

4. LDS Singles

LDS Singles focuses on helping Latter-day Saint men and women find a lasting relationship. While the initial sign-up process is fairly simple, you will be required to add a photo in order to get past the initial stages.

Make sure to use a real photo because the site will auto-block you before you can even log in. This is great news for online daters who are worried about being “Catfished.”

Once you’re in, you will have to pay by activities: Pay for a premium membership between $24.99 to $49.99 per month, or a spotlight feature between $5.50 per week to $14.99 per week.

5. Christian Dating for Free

If you want to sign up for CDFF, get comfortable because the sign-in process has quite a few questions to start you off and it’s not optional. Maybe you won’t want to share your church name from the initial introduction. (If not, just put N/A because the site won’t let you skip past that answer.)

Or, maybe you’re excited about the idea of someone being familiar with your church, who is potentially a member already. Share your attendance level, what kind of church you were raised in, your interests, a headline and intro.

Although you can join for free, there are perks of paying: experience CDFF ads-free; see last-log-in dates; let users see your profile in basic and advanced search; send unlimited new messages per day; see if your sent messages were deleted; and upload 16 images to your profile.

Pay $4.25 per month for a six-month plan ($25.50 total); $6.45 per month for a three-month plan ($19.35 total); or $11.99 per month for a one-month plan.

6. Christian Connection

You’ve got to love the enthusiasm of Christian Connection: “Let’s do this!” While most of the sign-in questions are pretty easy to answer, you can skip past the ones you don’t want to answer yet to see what the site is about.

Filter age, faith tradition, ethnic background, smoking habits, whether you have or want children, and even whether you only want to see users with a profile photo. Beware that the site asks for your personal cell phone number upfront, and that’s not an optional selection.

Once you provide this info, you can start filtering immediately. For unlimited messaging, pay $16 for one month, $32 for a three-month plan or $48 for a six-month plan (with a three-day trial extension). You can also wave at users to get their attention if you’re not sure what you want your initial introduction to be.

7. Christian VIP Singles

Explore thousands of singles on this site after answering just a few simple questions. This site may appear confusing once joining though because it redirects to FirstMet.

Pay $12.50 for six months ($74.97 total), $16.66 for three months ($49.99 total) or $24.99 for one month. Pay by credit card or PayPal to unlock your messages, get three times as many messages sent to you, unlock your matches and messages, and see who previewed your profile.

And if you’re not sure what you want to say to break the ice, feel free to choose an Icebreaker question to initiate the conversation. Considering this site isn’t exactly like the others when it comes to asking for your religious background, this is as good of a time as any to make that known on your profile.

Although you cannot personalize the Icebreaker question, you can choose what suits you most and have the site send out feelers. Once they do, then you can move into your own line of questions.

Bottom Line

If you think your religious beliefs won’t have a significant impact on your profile, think again. According to Pew Research, 32 percent of women find religious choices very important versus 18 percent of men.

If you’re on one of these seven sites, then clearly religion is influential in your life. This is the perfect time to find someone who prioritizes spirituality and religion as much as you do.

With any luck, maybe you’ll be picking out your tuxedo, wedding dress, church and a cake in no time. Visit the Perfect DM homepage for more expert platform reviews and ratings.